Suburban Senshi iChat #1255: “Life is changes”
#1255: “Life is changes”

 Fri Oct 12 09:21 2007 - Logging Started (suburbansenshi-chat)

FireFly_9> After that everyone in class mocked me severely.
@SpeedRcrX> So yeah I mean no matter what, a streaking hakase can't match this for sheer wrong:

FireFly_9> Oh my god I just want to dig out the brain from my head with a rusty spoon
.'~SugaBB_2999~'.> GAD FACKING DIMMITS!!!!
@SpeedRcrX> yo Chibi
.'~SugaBB_2999~'.> faCK ovv bich

 @SpeedRcrX has left suburbansenshi-chat (Well f[BLEEP]k you too )

FireFly_9> What's wrong, Chibiusa-chan?
.'~SugaBB_2999~'.> im SIK of dis SIT horatru
// J_Daito //> LOL "ho-RAT-ru"... that never gets old
.'~SugaBB_2999~'.> stik tit pu ur az , geydite
FireFly_9> Why are you in such a bad mood, Chibiusa-chan?
.'~SugaBB_2999~'.> i facking weant bak 2 mi potari klub aftard lik 2 yarz
FireFly_9> Pottery club? They still have that at Juuban Middle?
.'~SugaBB_2999~'.> ya
.'~SugaBB_2999~'.> i datched dem 4 da kogal semenar
FireFly_9> ... Kogal seminar?
FireFly_9> Sorry, sorry.
.'~SugaBB_2999~'.> horatru
.'~SugaBB_2999~'.> i wuz lik a pagun gad at kogal semenar
.'~SugaBB_2999~'.> every1 loaved mi
.'~SugaBB_2999~'.> evary tym i shoed pu dey hagged an jkassed mi an bagged mi 2 b dere frand
FireFly_9> Right, and?
.'~SugaBB_2999~'.> bat wen i want bak 2 patttery klub no 1 payed attanshun 2 mi
.'~SugaBB_2999~'.> it passzed me of!!1
FireFly_9> were gone from Pottery Club for two years.
FireFly_9> Did you honestly expect to come back and instantly become the center of attention again?
.'~SugaBB_2999~'.> YAS
.'~SugaBB_2999~'.> i meen dey were dong sit day i dadnt understad an wen i dad mai sit lik onli 1 or 2 popel botathed to tlka 2 mi, dey war 2 bz with dere own sit
FireFly_9> So... to sum up, you left for 2 years, came back, and are complaining because things moved on without you, and instead of trying to relax and get back in the flow, you're lamenting that the flow hasn't immediately diverted to surround your every movement?
.'~SugaBB_2999~'.> IT SHOD
.'~SugaBB_2999~'.> Y kant dey treet mi lkye dey dad @ Kogal Klub!?!?
FireFly_9> Maybe because you're not AT the Kogal club?
FireFly_9> I mean, I know it's hard to go from a place where you were the "Star" attraction to a place where you're just one of many, but it's an adjustment you have to make.
.'~SugaBB_2999~'.> i dun wana
FireFly_9> Chibiusa-chan.
FireFly_9> I'm sure no one in your pottery club is ostracizing you. But at the same time, there are a lot of people who don't know you, or who have developed their own dynamics without you. You can't just expect everything to be like it was, or get upset when they do things on their own.
.'~SugaBB_2999~'.> sew wat da fack am i supoaased 2 dew, im sew lo on da toatam poal new
// J_Daito //> I thought you liked being low on poles, runt
.'~SugaBB_2999~'.> ..|..
FireFly_9> Listen.
FireFly_9> You need to assess the mood of the room. You need to recognize that you are not simply hitting "resume" on a game you paused 2 years ago.
// J_Daito //> Hah the introvert giving relationship advice, this is rich
FireFly_9> Jedite, I may not have much of a life, but my introversion has allowed me the distance to be a fairly good observer of human relations.
FireFly_9> And Chibiusa-chan needs to realize that she's no longer in her old club where her every movement was instantly met with the gratification of response.
FireFly_9> She's going to have to compete with everyone else for attention until she forms new niches and milieus.
.'~SugaBB_2999~'.> dat SUXz.
FireFly_9> It may suck, but that's how it works.
FireFly_9> And complaining about it to people will just drive them away. No one wants to be told to pay attention to you, or that they ought to be paying attention to you.
FireFly_9> Just BE there, and be social. Eventually people will warm back up to you.
.'~SugaBB_2999~'.> y kant sit jast b lik tit wuz b4
FireFly_9> As Heraclitus said..
FireFly_9> Πάντα ῥεῖ καὶ οὐδὲν μένει - Everything flows, nothing stands still.
FireFly_9> Or in other words: "You could not step twice into the same river; for other waters are ever flowing on to you."
.'~SugaBB_2999~'.> hah
FireFly_9> Things will always be different. You can never return to the same place you left, for it will have changed. You can, and must adapt.

 Fri Oct 12 10:03 2007 - Logging Stopped (suburbansenshi-chat)

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